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  1. works at KPMG

    Went out on a first date over the weekend. My date tells me to that previously she was in a 10 year on-and-off relationship with her college bf, and they are still in contact time to time. Def a red f...

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  2. Marketing Manager

    Found out my husband is seeing someone from his work. Would I be in the wrong if I emptied out our joint accounts before confronting him? I know that sounds petty but I feel like he should experience ...

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  3. Consultant

    Got cheated on and she hooked up with a dude twice her age. She wants to make it work and says that I’m not giving her a chance to redeem herself, but I can’t see how I could trust her anymore. Tough ...

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  4. Manager

    I’ve been dating a girl for a month or so. We’re both in our 30s. I want to find someone to have a family with. She said she also wants that, but she’s had 6 “long-term” relationships in the past, the...

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  5. Project Manager

    I'm not sure how to phrase this, so I hope this makes sense. How long should your ex be off limits to your friends? I just found out that one of my best friends is dating a guy I dated in college. She...

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  6. Tax Senior

    What hobby is a red flag in a potential partner? For me, I've learned the hard way to avoid gamers.

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  7. Management Consultant

    I guess I'm struggling to find the line between healthy communication and a clingy girlfriend. We've been dating for seven months. We see each other a handful of times each week. However, on days we d...

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  8. Consultant

    How do you divide household chores in your home? My fiance and I just moved in together and we can't seem to agree. He thinks whomever works the most hours should take on fewer of the chores. However,...

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  9. Management Consultant

    Any tips on how I can get ahead of the toxic influence my husband's new coworkers are having on him? We've always split household and parenting tasks, but I am the breadwinner. So, you can say traditi...

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  10. works at Accenture

    Going through a very painful breakup after 10 months of a serious relationship that included living together, talking about marriage and kids, and were already looking to buy a home. The entire time d...

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  11. Consultant

    How old do you want your kids to be before you let them stay home alone for long periods of time? We have a 9 and 13 year old and my husband thinks the 13 year old could stay home on his own while we'...

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  12. Community Manager

    🚩Biggest red flags you ignore at the beginning of a relationship when you really like someone?

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  13. Front End Developer

    How long after a break up does it take you to delete photos with your ex off your phone?

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  14. Senior Associate

    How long do you think you'd need to be with someone before you'd be willing to move across the country for them? I ask because I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and were talking about ...

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  15. works at Lockheed Martin

    Hey everyone - not a relationship question but more of a advice for wedding venues in either Georgia or NYC. What is the best wedding venue and hotel in those areas? Budget is $150K-$200K. Thanks

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  16. Segment Producer

    I'm not sure if this is a red flag or if this guy I'm seeing is on to something. I've been seeing this guy for about six weeks. My cousin is getting married next month and I asked if he wanted to be m...

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  17. Project Manager

    Which date is everyone asking about salary? Is the first date too soon?

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  18. Sales Manager

    Are you willing to date someone who smokes or vapes or are those deal breakers? I hate being around smokers but somehow, I always end up dating guys who smoke.

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  19. Manager

    How many of you in long term (1 year+) relationships go on dates with your partner? How often and who plans it? My bf hasn’t planned a date or booked even a reservation at a restaurant in advance in ...

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  20. Consultant

    How do you prepare for rejection?

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