Struggling with wedding planning with my fiancé. We’re looking at dates and she refuses to consider any dates in the summer as they’re too hot (this limits us to spring and fall as she also doesn’t want a winter wedding). Her brother is going to the 2027 rugby World Cup in Australia for the month of October, so she’s pushing hard for either September or April. My birthday is in April and falls on a Saturday, and one of the other choices is September 11th. (Continued in comments)

Any reason why there seem to be soooo many eligible single women and not very many eligible single men?

Feeling exhausted, low, hopeless. On top of that the guilt for not feeling grateful. feeling of hopelessness just sucks. Life here is just full of f constraints within which I feel I wasted my health,career, dedicated all good times to others for majority of the time. Feeling extremely empty, clueless, and lost. That’s my confession for today. Don’t ask what happened. If you experienced similar moment, how did you get out of it? Dumb question I know. Also, did you ever believe in higher power?

In my 20’s I spent around $18,000ish traveling to multiple weddings for 9 friends. I’m now 32, 1/2 are divorced and I don’t talk to 4 of these folks anymore (slowly grew apart with distance and time). In hindsight, I regret spending so much money traveling for these events vs. investing the money.

What's considered a high body count? For reference, im hot and blonde